Standing against has never progressed a movement. It never will. Not directly, anyway.
Standing against is en vogue, though. Everyone likes to stand against something. I think it makes us feel plugged in and compassionate. It’s also really easy to do. Maybe that’s why so many people stand against things: It’s easy and makes us feel good. But, standing against is the lowest common denominator of charity and action.
We stand against world poverty. We stand against liberalism or conservatism. We stand against communism. We stand against human rights violators. We stand against corporate greed. We stand against injustice. We stand against violence. We stand against domestic abuse. We stand against world hunger. We stand against AIDS. We stand against war. We stand against. Against, against, against.
The problem with standing against, though, is that you are defined by the things you hate. Standing against is a negative identification. You are defining yourself by what you are not. That’s a definition of negative space!
When you stand against something, you take your queues from it. It becomes a dance, and the thing you oppose is the leader. You simply follow, responding to it step-by-step.
When you stand for something, however, the story is altogether different. When you stand for something, you set the tone, you lead the dance.
When you stand for something, you create the parameters. Instead of being a negative space, defined by the opposition, you fill in your own boundaries.
Standing against is the stance of politicians. They stand against this injustice or that tax. They stand with so-and-so in opposition to X. Rarely do they stand for something. Why? Because to stand for something is to stick your neck out. Standing for something is to take aim at a goal and say, “That’s where we’re headed…anything that gets in our way will be destroyed.” It takes initiative and heart. It’s gutsy. It’s bold. It’s rare.
But, it’s needed.
What do you stand for? Honestly, I don’t care to know what you don’t like or what you stand against. I want to know your substance. What do you stand for?
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